In a few more days it will be Valentines day. To me, its worse then being alone during the holidays. This day was set aside to tell your valentine, your love... How much you love them and show how thankful you are for having them in your life. A card of loving words and gestures....besides its a day of flowers and candy... my favorite part .... welll... I stand corrected, maybe runner up ;)

Well, I have learned a very valuable lesson when it comes to Love. Hey, what can I say, been a seeker of it allll my life. Had many...so called loves... which ended up being the road to hell. So, what went wrong. I have found the answer, it was staring me in the face.

How can anyone ever really find Love if they don't experience it for themselves, to theirself. So, the list that "peaceluvblessin" wrote of the rules in loving me.... I agree to them all. Wished for just that type of man to be in my life too. So, what if I would apply those rules in loving Me-Myself&I!

To be Caring for my own needs and wants .... To be Proud of myself and act accordingly .... To be more Supportive and encourage myself instead of even letting the thought.. I can't do this or that! .... hmmmm... Loving yet not overbearing part.... lol.. huh... guess I best not get to full of myself then! ;) Oh yes, I must always remain Open Minded, its the only way to find the truths. You all know I can be Funny and make you laugh with my own silliness. Trustworthy, this one I am just learning about. To trust me..so I know how to live. For be Responsible... lordy... this one act I am very good at, I stand responsible for all my own actions and desicions! Now for being Gentle to myself, wow, well I can beat myself up like nobodys business! I am learning!! For Believing in the Divine Power, of course I do, it's my magic in life. The gifts and blessings I recieve, cause I do believe!

So, here it is Valentine day soon, ain't got anyone by my side but sure got a good hold on Me-Myself&I. Going to treat this soul like gold. Going to show her how special and needed she is. I will buy her some roses and candy. I will draw her a hot tub of bubbles and serve her a bottle of fine wine. Turn up the music, then sit back and watch her relax, enjoy this day of love.

Going to Love myself as I do others! Oh...Happy Days :~)